Lost Parent Diary

A few months ago I caught this post on the blog-o-sphere and I wanted to share it with you in this blog.

I enjoy articles that take a balanced view on issues and lay out clear pros and cons. Trent’s blog The Simple Dollar does this a lot, I strongly recommend it for anyone interested in taking control of their personal financial life.

In the article, Trent makes a cost/benefits analysis of having a child. Have a child has its rewards and sacrifices, and Trent points out that you should have a child if you are willing to make them. In the end, it’s a question of priorities. It’s not for everyone and he’s not afraid to point it out.

This article struck a cord with me as a father-t0-be. The idea of making a cost/benefit analysis of a child initially seemed wrong. But, then again, you don’t have a child for the sack of having a child or because others are doing it, you have a child because you want one.

Trent’s article reminded me that there needs to be balance in life between you, what you want, and others you share your life with. This articles underlines that being a parent is a big responsibility and, when possible, ought to be a planned event. By finding balance, you can ensure your children and yourself a higher quality of life than if you jumped into it without consideration.